I have to admit, it鈥檚 hard to practice intentionality in the midst of a national emergency. When everything around is closing shop, hunkering down, and social distancing, those same patterns become easily imprinted onto how I find myself operating in the day-to-day.
But between remote work, Netflix binges, and headline reading, I鈥檓 beginning to wonder if I鈥檝e taken social distancing almost too literally? Am I or have I moved beyond to a place where I鈥檝e given myself permission to disconnect from the world and relationships around me until the storm passes?
Leveraging Virtual Space for Relationship Building
How we manage our relationships during this time is no doubt important. If relationship building takes work and time, continuing to foster, cultivate, and grow those same relationships while limited to the virtual world can feel like a Herculean effort. But there are simple, intentional, and (dare I say it) fun ways that we can engage with each other and grow our relationships with only screens at our disposal.
Here are four ways to build your relationships virtually while also social distancing:
- Hold a virtual living room meal
- Take advantage of the free features offered by video conferencing platforms like Zoom, Google Hangouts or Skype and have people over for a virtual meal. Text a link to your friends to meet you in the video chat for dinner and bring your group around the world together in a way that feels like they are sitting across the table from you.
- P.S. If you do use Zoom, trying out the virtual background feature is sure to bring some laughs and discussion topics.
- Have a Facetime game night
- Use your phone and organize a game night! Try to play a group game like but do it all over your phone鈥檚 video chat feature. Or jump into a video call with someone for a game of Battleship, Connect 4, War, or other games you each have access to.
- Spark a trip down memory lane
- Go through the old photos and videos sitting in your phone, Facebook albums, or computer desktop. If one instantly brings up a memory or story you hadn鈥檛 thought about in a while, send it to the people who are connected to that memory and kick off a conversation of reminiscing and nostalgia.
- Share your passion live in a for your social followers
- Raise your hand if you have ever broadcasted live to people on social platforms like Facebook, YouTube, or Instagram. While it doesn鈥檛 get as much use compared to features like Instagram Stories, live sharing is a fun way to demonstrate your expertise in a certain area and bring people along in the journey real-time. Start a weekly live cooking show on Instagram, teach a watercolor painting class on Facebook, lead others in a 15-min home exercise session, or read daily chapters of your favorite book 鈥� the options are endless!
Aiming Toward Fellowship
As you try out some of the ideas above, remember that the goal is intentionality 鈥� think about how you can leverage your groups鈥� unique experiences and interests to create space for friendships to grow toward fellowship.
I鈥檒l leave you with this from author Seth Godin:
"For five hundred years, a fellowship was understood, Tolkien-style, to be a collection of humans engaged in mutual support. []
It鈥檚 hard to imagine something more reassuring, challenging and productive, all at once.
To be part of an organized fellowship is a responsibility and also the chance to leap forward. Join the others, people like you, eager to see and to be seen, and most of all, to be of service. (Worth noting that 鈥榝ellow鈥� is not gender-specific and in fact is in the Old Testament in reference to women).
A few decades ago, our status and selection-based culture shifted a common meaning of the word to describe a sort of prize. You get picked for a fellowship, maybe you even get some money, and you can definitely put it on your resume. Missing, too often, is the original magic, the idea that the others are there with you, side by side, together.
That new sort of fellowship isn鈥檛 really helpful to most of us. I鈥檓 more interested in the traditional, effective kind. Mutual support and a shared journey.
There are organic fellowships everywhere, which sprouted on their own, seemingly out of nowhere, and if you find yourself in one, that鈥檚 a wonder to be cherished. They don鈥檛 need a name or a published agenda. Simply being in it is sufficient.
For the rest of us, there鈥檚 the chance to go start one. Start a fellowship, invite some people along, and then do the hard work to keep it going. All for one and one for all.鈥�
About the Author
Nate Hamill is the Content Strategy Manager at 国产偷拍 and editor of the . He graduated from 国产偷拍 in 2014 with a degree in business administration.